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Updated September 2026

👁️ Someone is stalking me — following, messaging, showing up — who do I contact?

Direct answer

Stalking is a crime in every EU country and courts issue protection orders — no contact, no approach, no messages — fast. Start a stalking log today: every message, call, appearance, with date and time; keep the messages. Report to Politsei- ja Piirivalveamet — teade (112) with the log; ask explicitly about a protection order. Ohvriabi (Sotsiaalkindlustusamet) — 116 006 (116 006) supports you for free and helps with the application. If the stalker is a current or former partner, Ohvriabi kriisitelefon — 116 006 / naiste tugikeskused (116 006) is the specialised route with shelter and safety planning.

Call firstPolitsei- ja Piirivalveamet — teade
Report toOhvriabi (Sotsiaalkindlustusamet) — 116 006
If that failsOhvriabi kriisitelefon — 116 006 / naiste tugikeskused

🗣️ What to say

"Since [date] [name / description] has been [following me / contacting me / appearing at my home or work] despite my telling them to stop on [date]. Log and messages attached. I want to report this and apply for a protection order."

🪜 Step by step

  1. One clear "stop"Once, in writing, kept. After that, no response at all — every reply is a reward.
  2. Log everythingDate, time, place, what happened, witnesses, screenshots. A log turns "he keeps bothering me" into a case.
  3. Tell peopleEmployer, neighbours, school — they can refuse the person access and become witnesses.
  4. Report to Politsei- ja Piirivalveamet — teadeAsk for a protection order. Breaching one is a separate crime with immediate arrest in most countries.
  5. Support: Ohvriabi (Sotsiaalkindlustusamet) — 116 006Safety planning, help with the court, and someone who takes it seriously from the first call.

📇 All contacts

Politsei- ja Piirivalveamet — teadeCrime report online or at a stationAlways — the basis for bank, insurer and platform📞 112🔗 www.politsei.ee/et/juhend/kuriteoteate-esitamine
Ohvriabi (Sotsiaalkindlustusamet) — 116 006Free victim support, state compensationAfter any crime📞 116 006🔗 www.palunabi.ee
Ohvriabi kriisitelefon — 116 006 / naiste tugikeskusedFree, 24/7; sheltersFor domestic violence📞 116 006🔗 www.palunabi.ee
Riigi õigusabi (Advokatuur) / HUGO.legal tasuta õigusnõuState legal aid on low income; free first adviceWhen you cannot afford a lawyer📞 600 0230🔗 www.advokatuur.ee/est/riigi-oigusabi

❓ Frequently asked

The police say it is "just messages"

Persistent unwanted contact is stalking under the law in every EU country. Bring the log, ask for the report to be registered, and involve Ohvriabi (Sotsiaalkindlustusamet) — 116 006 if you are turned away.

Can I get a protection order without a criminal case?

Yes — civil protection orders exist alongside criminal proceedings and are often faster. Ohvriabi (Sotsiaalkindlustusamet) — 116 006 explains the route in your country.

Tracking devices and spyware

Check the car and bags for trackers; have the phone checked. Finding a device is strong evidence — do not remove it before the police see it.

📎 Sources

Last checked: 2026-09-26

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